βIt was the worst day of our livesβ: Local mom reminds others to drive sober this football Sunday
CHESAPEAKE, Va. (WAVY) β Millions of people will gather for the big game on Sunday. If you're partying with alcohol, there's plenty of ways to celebrate responsibly.
"It'll be eight years this coming May. May 19, 2017. It was the worst day of our lives," said Tammy Duffy.
Her daughterΒ Kaitlyn DuffyΒ was 18 years old and on her way to Virginia Tech where she planned to go for pre-med.
"She was a senior at Great Bridge High School here in Chesapeake, and she was about a week away from her senior prom and about a month away from graduating," explained Tammy.
Her daughter had a 4.4 GPA and worked her way up to be the Girl Scout equivalent of an Eagle Scout. She worked at least one job while also competing athletically in sports like swimming. She was her school's co-captain the year she passed.Β
Despite her high achievements, she always looked to her mom, Tammy, for guidance.Β
"She asked me that morning when I tiptoed in her room to go take some of my nice makeup back that she would always steal from my bathroom," recalled Tammy about the day her daughter passed. "She rolled over in her bed and... it's one of my last memories of her... She said, 'Mom, I'm really stressed out with school. Everybody's skipping school. It's senior skip day. We're going to the beach today, so can I please go?'"
Tammy said yes. She didn't know it would be the last time she'd speak to her daughter. Just hours later, the drunk driver of a 10,000-pound furniture truck crashed into her daughter's car in Virginia Beach.
"We had a lot of eyewitnesses that saw the whole thing," she said. "He went off the road, into one of the drainage ditches there in that part of Pungo. He overcorrected, and he was intoxicated and impaired on drugs and alcohol. He went airborne and slammed into her. Basically, hitting her door on an angle so hopefully it killed her instantly."
Jerode Johnson's choice to get behind the wheel cost Tammy her only daughter. The courts convicted him of a list of crimes, sentencing him to nearly 50 years in jail. Another young woman,Β Kaitlyn's friend,Β was also in the car when the crash happened. She was severely hurt, but Tammy said she survived the impact.
"Our whole world was turned upside down due to impaired driving," said Tammy.
After losingΒ Kaitlyn, TammyΒ has spent her time advocating for safe, sober driving with MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving). This weekend ahead of Sunday's big football game, she said her mission is stronger than ever.
"They had developed a campaign called 'Take a minute, make a plan'," she said about her organization's message. "I just ask everybody to just take that one minute before you actually go out and enjoy the Super Bowl, before you leave to go anywhere, and have a plan in place."
Tammy said there are a lot of options available for people looking to secure a sober ride. Uber, Lyft, and taxi services make it easier than ever.
Drive Safe Hampton Roads is even offering discounts on Lyft rides for the Super Bowl. You can claim your discount by clicking here.